Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Imperfection


Have you ever noticed that we all are Addicted... yeah I used the word "ADDICTED"  for perfection n flawlessness. How we always take extra-extreme care for getting things done accurately and A-OK. Even a criminal executes his crime with perfection, if not he/she ends up in jail :P  Now you won't agree with me on this as I displayed your addiction out on web, in front of everybody.
  Lemme give a proof from everyday life -- "Did you ever counted how  many times u hit backspace key before u publish your post on your website/blog". Yeah, there I caught you, I know you are giggling there and hiding your head down.
 We all ache for it, accept it or not. 
But, in real word where we all born and raised, where body and brain, unlike an electronic machine, is not installed or equipped with backups and backspace keys. Each one of us has flaws, we all make mistakes and we all lack in some or the other thing.
We're born imperfects. 
But, then
Why we lack empathy for people who are unable to do certain things ? Why we can't entertain lil flaws n imperfections in someone's personality ?
Why we hate misfits ? Why such austerity towards them ?

Note: I'm not talking here about people with physical or mental disability... they are the people whom I proudly call "perfect" in their own special way.



Just like 
every written word
doesn't have the fate of 
becoming a novella 
or of a song to sing.
It ain't heinous or bad,
to not to know few things.

This illogical race 
of highest numbers and perfect face.
Precision with Über-fast pace.
For those, who fail to chase.
Why subsist ?
 Lack of empathy, compassion,
support and brace. 

Some insignificant, puerile flaws. 
doesn't make a person, 
some ugly bat with pointed claws.
Nothing like bad or low to feel.
Everybody have one, 
no need to repent,
its not a big deal. 

Lets move above,
from the notion of perfectly perfect. 
Why not celebrate,
the benefits of imperfects and defects.
There's always a route, 
of corrections and checks. Never forget-
We are born imperfects.

So, next time if u see someone not good at something, for a change, give him/her a second chance or give him/her some other job. Spare your anger and save your energy for something else. Because its not possible for everyone to be good at everything at every single time. Try not to play Mr./Miss perfectionist everyday.
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 दोष और विकार  
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51 comments:

  1. I hit backspace 124 times just typing this, I know the shame, I hang my head..haha...like imperections better most of the time anyway.

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  2. There's always a route,
    of corrections and checks. Never forget-
    We are born imperfects.

    Impressive.... good thought

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  3. ^^^ spelling was on purpose just so you know..haha

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  4. Your blog title: Random Scribbling ought to be changed! It's giving people the wrong impression. I am perfectly sure they were not random. They are thoughts carefully crafted into art. I enjoy your delivery style - the way it goes into a rhythmic flow.

    Keep the music going!

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  5. Very true,imperfectly perfect we are... without spots and blemishes won't we mortals be God?But a realization of being imperfect is in fact a journey towards attaining the Godly status!

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  6. what a thought! and so beautifully put too!
    loved every line

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  7. Everything is perfect as it is...I try to stop seeking things to be different but I often fall short :P

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  8. Keep the words flowing, JM! Because imperfection is beauty- I always believed in that quote :)
    Very well written .. and oh yes, this post is nothing short of perfect :D

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  9. You have suggested the rightest attitude for the fellow beings. We belong to imperfect existence.

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  10. Jyoti how lighlty u raised a serious matter. Well done! Eevn I have ths knack f perfection but its my intrinsic nature, I cant help it n then get baffled by it sometimes myself.

    Lovely post!

    Love
    Mani

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  11. Beautiful words and thought-provoking message.

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  12. written beautifully . just before two days ago i was watching a serial based on the same topic. its very strange when they are very good at behaving with some so called normal people like we then why cant we?

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  13. loved ur thought-'we are born imperfect'...
    This post reminds me of a quote,I had heard somewhere..
    "nobody is perfect,but some are much closer to it than others!"

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  14. This was a beautiful thought. Imperfection. Beautifully arranged in words. :) xx

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  15. Lovely thoughts..the acceptance of imperfection...very thought provoking, but certainly perfect, creation.

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  16. I need to learn to exercise this. I tend to look for perfections, way too much....

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  17. We're all guilty of the charge Jyoti.

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  18. amazing charm,
    lovely poetry.
    thanks for linking.

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  19. Something we need to think about every minute of everyday. Perfection is not a goal to attain, it seems for me to be something I should run away from.
    The words hit the mind beautifully, another great piece Jyoti.

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  20. Jyoti,

    Right you are. We need to be more supportive than looking down on someone who has a flaw.

    Take care

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  21. Thoughtful post Jyoti....

    and yes we must learn to accept those little short comings in our day-to-day acts......

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  22. So true!! We need to be more accepting when it comes to imperfections.

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  23. "Everybody is a genius. But, if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will spend its whole life believing that it is stupid.”
    ~Albert Einstein .

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  24. Wow! Wonderful poem. I can feel this in my bones and heart. No one is perfect. Imperfection in my opinion is also a form of perfection.
    Thank you for sharing.

    Namaste

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  25. Excellent. I second you with every word you mentioned in that article. That is quite true and I think we really don't see it despite the fact that is right there in front of us.

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  26. indeed!
    so important to achieve that perfect balance! :)

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  27. Jyoti, Your message is clear and true. Your street smart dialect is an asset to the theme, too.

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  28. nice...perfect even...smiles....imperfection is beautiful actually...because we all are...and accepting that is the beginning of living...

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  29. There's always a route,
    of corrections and checks. Never forget-
    We are born imperfects.


    Well superb configuration of words, And what a great message floated in end....

    Rock on!!!

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  30. So true. I needed this reminder. And so gently. :-)

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  31. Lets move above,
    from the notion of perfectly perfect.
    Why not celebrate,
    the benefits of imperfects and defects.
    There's always a route,
    of corrections and checks. Never forget-
    We are born imperfects.

    Excellent creation jyoti....

    AGREED.............100% :)

    "At the beginning
    i tried to be perfect
    but after each accomplishment
    there were judges
    who found out mistakes
    certainly, all those were
    my well wishers

    and advised
    not to be perfect
    but to be the EXCELLENT

    Coz there is nothing
    above perfection
    to learn"!!! :)

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  32. Can't agree more with your thoughts...we can know the beauty of perfection when there is imperfection, which ultimately leads to a better performance.

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  33. I agree with you on this...There is nothing so annoying as being with someone who is know it all.

    Great to see the comment section so easy to comment again ~

    I wish you and your family Happy Holidays ~

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  34. Imperfect poem with flaws. Perfect.

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  35. Imperfectly perfect! Jyoti, you make little things in life look so good just with your brilliant stroke of a pen!

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  36. No defects ...it's perfect. I liked the concept very much. Perfection is the enemy of completion...and more often then not Completion is what is desired.

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  37. Hello Jyoti.
    I actually just wrote a couple of poems on a woman's imperfections. I haven't posted them on my blog yet though.

    We live in an imperfect world & try to be perfect. There's no such thing as perfection. Imperfection is indeed beauty. It's our imperfections & flaws that make us unique...one of a kind.
    Lovely post & ending message.
    Thanks for sharing & visiting. I always love hearing from you.

    A Woman's Poverty

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  38. I am speechless Jyoti. Brilliant piece of writing. wonderful poem.
    Wish you and your family a Merry Christmas.
    You are welcome at my new posts-
    http://urmi-z-unique.blogspot.com
    http://amazing-shot.blogspot.com

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  39. जैसा कि आपने अंतिम पंक्तियों मे कहा कोई भी इंसान कभी भी दोषमुक्त हो ही नहीं सकता। हम सभी मे एक दूसरे से की नज़र मे बहुत से दोष हैं इसलिए दोषारोपण की भावना से ऊपर तो उठना ही होगा।
    ज्योति जी आपके ब्लॉग पर देर से आने के लिए माफी चाहता हूँ।
    सादर

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  40. Everyone's perfect in their own ways :)
    Lovely post! Positive :)
    Merry Christmas :)
    Remain Im-perfect with your perfect poems :P

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  41. we are in pursuit of perfection..knowing very well that nobody & nothing can be perfect.We should accept & love people the way they are. nice post !

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  42. Beautiful Post! We end up looking down on other people. It is so bad and cruel :(

    Love
    http://www.meghasarin.blogspot.com

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  43. Awesome job dear.....Sometimes, imperfections makes us complete :)

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  44. Jyoti,reading your poems about the small things of life which actually is a big deal,makes this blog of a favourite of mine.I think you deserve this award which I have posted on my blog.Please do refer to my blog,www.suzyz.blogspot.com

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  45. yooo ,my dear is brilliant as ever... a great woman indeed !

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